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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries. - National Competition on Worries.
Let me introduce...
today's guests.
Park Jung Cheul, Kang Sung Jin.
Hello.
Seomoon Tak.
(The legendary female rocker, Seomoon Tak)
Broadcaster Kim Il Joong.
When Il Joong found out...
that the other guests are Jung Cheul, Sung Jin and Moon Tak,
- he seemed to be offended. - No.
He even said, "How can you do this to me?"
I wasn't really offended.
You always seem to invite a couple of guests from girl bands.
- We do. - Hani...
- or Gyeong Ree for example. - Right. We once had Seol Hyun.
- When we invite girl bands, - Yes.
we make sure the other guests are not as old as you.
(You're too old to be invited with girl bands.)
You're just too old.
- I'm sorry. - That's why we're here for you.
I got my hopes up a bit too.
We thought we would have at least a female announcer as a guest.
You can't say that in front of Moon Tak.
We just feel sorry for each other.
- Is it because of Moon Tak? - We feel bad for each other.
We do have a female guest.
I'm not satisfied with today's guests either.
I heard Jung Cheul and Sung Jin are trying something interesting.
- You're playing in a play. - You're performing a play.
The play is called "Heavy Metal Girls".
It will be premiered on March 15 in Daehangno.
What's the play about?
It's about four women facing a layoff.
- Women? - Yes.
And they have to learn to play heavy metal.
Their new boss is a big fan of heavy metal.
Then imagine we're the four middle-aged women in crisis.
- Teach us. - Please teach us.
- Teach us. - Please.
- Mr Kang Sung Jin... - Yes.
- will give you a demonstration. - Okay.
- Growling. - Growling.
If you only use vocal chords, you'll damage your voice.
You have to use your nose instead.
(Making a sound with your nose)
Heavy Metal Girls.
Do you see that I'm growling?
- This method is called "growling". - This is "growling".
- Do you headbang, too? - Of course.
We do have a heavy metal pose or walk.
- That's why we prepared a wig. - For headbanging?
- You should show us. - It's a must for heavy metal.
I look pretty in a wig.
- It's perfect. - You do look like a rocker.
We'll show you...
heavy metal poses.
- Headbang. - I'll show you how to walk.
He'll walk. Go!
(Is this a heavy metal walk?)
(Finishing it off...)
(by taking off his wig)
All right.
(We'll look forward to your performance.)
- We still have a lot to learn. - Moon Tak has been performing...
- in "Hedwig and the Angry Inch". - It's very famous.
I heard the tickets were sold out in five minutes.
I perform with Cho Jung Seok and Jo Seung Woo.
- Even Yoon Do Hyun will be in it. - Yes.
Can you show us a little bit?
Please sing us one of the numbers.
("The Long Grift" in "Hedwig")
(She captivates the audience with her powerful and soulful voice.)
(This is it.)
(That was great.)
Amazing!
My mum and sister keep insulting me.
My family tells me...
I smell like a pig and I'm dirty.
How does you sister look to you?
She looks like a pig to me.
I heard they hurt your feelings when you were sick.
They told me that I shouldn't have visited the emergency room for this.
When you were put on a drip?
It cost 50 dollars.
She blamed me for wasting 50 dollars.
Has your family changed?
They don't say mean things to me any longer.
After the show, I realised...
my mum and sister do love me.
Ma'am, how have you been?
Since the show,
I've been reflecting on myself.
I decided to stop nagging my children...
- and be nice to them. - Good to hear that.
I hope you'll take this opportunity...
to change for the better.
Let's see if they'll win for the second time today.
- The winner... - will be awarded 1,000 dollars.
We have three new worries today.
Let's take a look.
"I Love Watching Wrestling".
- "I Love Watching Wrestling"? - "He's so mean".
"Righteous Son".
Our staff members are now used to hearing shocking stories.
But even they were shocked by this story.
We have a very shocking story today.
Hello, I'm in my 30s and I have a three-year-old son.
I'm busy taking care of him and doing house chores all day.
And my husband tells me,
"My gosh, why are you so slow? You're a hopeless mess."
- "You're so fat." - No way.
"You look like a pig."
"What do you do all day?"
"Get out of my way."
"Get off of me. You embarrass me."
My husband looks down on me.
Do you know what he said when I was breastfeeding my son?
"That's disgusting."
(What?)
Why is your skin so chapped? That looks disgusting.
- He's so mean. - "It's because I had your son."
"You disgust me. Cover your skin."
(Her husband insults her about her looks.)
Why do I have to put up with these hurtful words?
But the thing is that he does this even when we're with someone else.
Even when we're with his friends, he goes like...
"My wife is so stupid."
"Just ignore what she says."
"Why are you doing this in front of others?"
"Are you crying?"
"Stop crying. It's annoying."
With my husband looking down on me,
I feel more and more miserable.
Should I stay with him...
or leave him?
This is a serious situation.
Why would he say these mean things?
No matter what the reason, he shouldn't do this.
This is simply unacceptable regardless of the reason.
Let's hear from her.
Please come onto the stage!
(A woman abused by her husband)
(Song Hye Young)
(Please go help her.)
Take my hand.
Will you take my hand?
I'm sure this scene will air.
(I go my way.)
- Please take my hand. - This will definitely air.
She's ignoring him.
He's completely being ignored by her.
- Please. - She's ignoring him.
- Please take my hand. - Kneel down!
Take his hand.
- She finally took his hand. - That's good.
Why did you ignore him?
(That was tough.)
I'm sure this won't be edited out.
We could see that your husband looks down on you.
In what situations, does he insult you?
- All the time. - All the time?
Yes. He insults and offends me all the time.
Let's say he's driving a car...
and I know which road to take.
I tell him that we should take that road.
Then he says, "What do you know?" and he takes the other road.
- On purpose? - When I call him honey,
he says, "Don't even call me. It's annoying."
He doesn't want you to call him that?
Why don't you just say "hey" instead?
- He doesn't want me to talk to him. - Why does he live with you?
- "Hey!" - He doesn't want me to talk to him.
"Hey!"
How was he when you were dating or when you just got married?
He was very nice to me back then.
If I get thirsty in the middle of the night,
he would get up and get some water for me right away.
How long have you been married?
- Six years. - Six years?
- And? - Ever since I had my son,
he's been insulting me about my looks.
In addition to calling me a pig,
when he sees pretty girls on TV, he says,
"I wish I could live with them instead."
They would never live with him.
(Who's this man?)
All the female audience are upset.
Wouldn't it be that he wants to make you jealous...
and love him more?
When I put on makeup, he says,
"Hey."
"You look like an old prostitute."
He says that.
How can he say that?
By any chance, is your husband...
very handsome?
No, he isn't.
He's not in the position to make fun of my looks.
- Look at her. - He's not?
She was smiling while saying that.
He's not in the position to make fun of her looks.
- Let's meet him now. - Let's hear what he has to say.
Where are you?
Hello.
- Hello. - Nice to meet you.
We're not happy to see you.
I can see he's not in the position to mock you.
(Cold)
We can't welcome him.
Please welcome him.
He's our guest.
- Why do you say such hurtful words? - Why do you do that?
I just spit out words without meaning any of them.
- I think my wife is overreacting. - What?
Look.
When you see pretty girls on TV,
do you really say,
"I wish I could live with them"?
I'm sure every man thinks so.
- But not everyone says that. - Look.
(Smirking)
You can't say that out loud in front of your wife.
I was just talking to myself...
and she happened to hear that.
- Wait. - What?
Even if you were alone, would you say,
"I wish I could live with them"?
(He talked to himself a bit too loud.)
(Do you see how they react?)
Why did you change...
after your wife got pregnant?
She gained a lot of weight.
- And her skin got chapped. - Yes.
It looked terrible.
She couldn't do anything about it.
- It's because she was pregnant. - And you caused it.
(You are partly responsible.)
But...
celebrities stay fit...
- even after having children. - Why do you compare her with them?
You would never be able to date a celebrity.
It was ugly. It disgusted me.
Wait.
(What's the problem with him?)
- Wait. - Gosh.
- Then... - I can explain.
It's her personality...
that changed me this way.
- Her personality? - It's because of her personality?
- What do you mean? - I'm...
a very shy person.
On the other hand, my wife is very aggressive.
She has a very strong personality.
When we have a fight,
I always lose.
Did you start saying mean things to overpower her?
Is that why?
I'm just paying her back.
What has she said to you, then?
Who started saying hurtful things first?
Did you bring about the situation?
Sometimes, I did.
When we were drinking,
my wife once swore at me all of a sudden.
No one swears for no reason unless he or she is crazy.
He says you insulted him too.
What was the situation like?
I didn't insult him.
When you had a baby...
I just swore at him.
You just swore at him but not insulted him?
It was because he always insults me...
about my looks.
When I had a baby,
the baby was so big...
that I had to have a Caesarean.
The day before my operation,
my husband drank a lot.
I was booked for 9am...
and he wouldn't wake up.
- I see. - So...
I packed up alone,
took a bus to the hospital...
and had a baby.
Was your husband sleeping at home?
- Yes. - That's...
- just absurd. - Is that true?
I had some drinks with her family...
the night before.
- With her family? - Yes.
I thought I could wake up.
But when I woke up, she was gone.
I ran to the hospital a bit late.
I guess she's still angry about it.
- Of course. - She should be.
Did you apologise for it?
- Did you say you were sorry? - I didn't have time for that.
She got angry with me instead.
Of course.
Of course she was angry with you.
- "Instead"? - She had every reason.
- He chose the wrong words. - But...
it's not like I went out alone.
I was with her family.
- That's irrelevant. - That doesn't matter.
Even if...
you were with her family, you were expecting a baby.
You should have controlled yourself.
And even if you drank a lot,
you should have woken up.
It seems like...
it's not only a matter of her looks.
Do you usually speak in a rude way?
- What do you think? - I don't think so.
(Let's look into this today.)
You have a three-year-old son.
How does he treat your son?
- Is he a nice dad? - Even in front of our son,
he insults me.
He always raises his voice.
Our son is only three years old...
and he just disregards it when someone raises his or her voice...
because he's so used to it.
Is it that bad?
(Their son is used to hearing someone scream.)
(Feeling sorry for his son)
- Don't do that in front of him. - You should be more careful...
in front of your son. You know that, don't you?
I do know that...
but I don't know why.
Without realising it,
I just spit it out.
And then I realise that I can't take it back.
But I do try to be careful in front of our son.
Do you spend a lot of time with your son?
We run a restaurant...
And we have our son with us all the time.
But it's true I can't pay a lot of attention to him.
You don't spend a lot of time with your son or talk to your wife.
How does it feel at home?
We're like strangers.
We rarely talk unless it's necessary.
- What about house chores? - Does he help you out a lot?
At our restaurant,
- You run a restaurant. - we have to carry heavy things.
When I ask him for help,
he says, "You're stronger than me. You can do that alone."
He never helps me.
- Let me explain. - Okay.
We had an occasion to fight the other day.
- You had an occasion? - Yes, we did.
Do you have occasions to fight?
- And? - My wife...
caught me by the wrist...
and she just pushed me down. as she's much stronger than me.
- She pushed me down. - Like this?
That must have been humiliating.
- How did you feel? - Not many people can beat her...
- in arm wrestling. - Then...
- She's so strong. - let me ask you.
Do you think you'll lose to her if you fight for real?
Yes.
- What? - No way.
She's a girl.
- But if you're being pushed down, - Right.
- He has trauma. - you couldn't resist.
When he realised how strong you were,
he must have been shocked.
How strong are you, really?
- I'm not so strong. - Let's compete.
- Let's try. - I'm just as strong as other girls.
Try resisting her.
- Should we do it? - Should I...
- let her grab me? - Yes.
- Try resisting. - What was the situation like?
Just like this.
(Show us...)
(how strong you are.)
(Collapsing)
(Even though he tried his best, he couldn't resist her.)
- She's strong. - She is.
- Wait. - I was shocked.
Sung Jin, you should try.
- She is strong. - Il Joong, will you try?
I was surprised.
Really? I'm 190cm tall, you know.
But her husband said she's extremely strong.
(You can't beat her.)
- You're not in the right position. - He's scared.
- Let me see. - Wait.
- Il Joong, please do your best. - She has huge hands.
(She pushes him down right away.)
(Are you tired?)
(Let me lay you down.)
Wait.
This is unbelievable.
(His pride has been hurt.)
I'm shocked.
She is strong indeed.
- She is strong. - I'm shocked.
Let me try.
She is strong.
- This is unbelievable. - I'm serious.
- I tried to resist. - I'll do it for real.
She couldn't beat Yeong Ja.
- You should try it for yourself. - Look at their hands.
Oh my. She's real!
I'm telling you.
- I could totally feel it. - It seems like...
(This is a big match.)
She's so strong.
The heavyweight final.
I haven't...
felt this nervous in 15 years.
No one could beat her.
(She knocked down three men.)
(Will she even beat Yeong Ja?)
Who will be the winner?
Yeong Ja is really strong.
Who will be the winner?
(I couldn't let you take my place.)
Let's see.
(Let me start.)
This is real.
- This is real. - Their faces are turning red.
This is real.
(Trembling)
(Excited)
Who will be the winner?
(Yeong Ja gives in.)
- My goodness. - Oh my.
(I lost.)
She never loses to anyone.
I've never seen Yeong Ja so shocked before.
She's so strong.
- You did your best, didn't you? - She's unbelievable.
- I tried to resist. - Right?
Even if you lose to your wife, don't feel humiliated.
You wouldn't be losing your pride.
Your wife is...
Your wife is a strong woman by nature.
(A strong woman by nature)
(She can easily bring down men.)
(She's even stronger than Yeong Ja.)
(You are truly a strong woman.)
Do you feel like you're easily deflated by her?
I don't think I'm easily cast down...
but I somehow lose confidence when I'm with my wife.
Is that why you're looking down on her and saying mean things?
It's easier to get hit by her...
- Pardon me? - when we fight.
- Have you been hit by her before? - Yes.
- What on earth? - She must hit him quite often.
(We need an explanation.)
What is he talking about?
Just tell us everything.
- He said you hit him. - That was before our marriage.
- When you two were dating? - Yes.
- Do you mean a long time ago? - It was when we were dating.
No, it happened even after we had a baby.
When I hit her once, she hits me back twice or three times.
- That's because you hit her first. - You hit her first.
Sometimes when I tap on her,
she slaps me.
Why do you tap in the first place?
You don't have to tap on her.
You don't need to knock on her like a door.
- It's not a light tap. - We like each other very much so...
- Pardon me? - It's not a light tap.
- Then how does he do it? - What does he do?
Let's say this is my face, and this is how he does.
- Goodness. - He slaps your face?
He does slap your face?
- That's very annoying. - Why do you do that to her?
I tap on her forehead because her forehead seems nice to hit.
- He does that often too. - Whether it's the forehead or...
somewhere else, being hit by someone can hurt anyone's feelings.
- Are you just playing? - Yes.
- That's not fun at all. - Why would you hit someone's head?
Even if you did that while dating,
she came on the show because you kept abusing her verbally.
How else did he look down on you...
to hurt your feelings?
He doesn't only look down on me,
but also he looks down on my side of the family.
- What? - That could be very provoking.
When his mother calls him,
he goes to visit her right away.
When my parents call him,
he sighs and says he doesn't want to see them.
So he doesn't visit them.
- That must make you feel bad. - My mother-in-law...
buys many toys for our son.
However, my parents don't do things like that.
So my husband says, "It's not like your parents buy him anything."
"Why would we go see them? If you hadn't been good to my parents,"
"I would've never gone see your parents."
- That's what he says. - Do you agree with what she says?
- Yes, I do. - Okay.
But I have something to say about that.
We work at a chicken franchise restaurant owned by her uncle.
My wife's uncle owns it.
So her family and I got together often in the beginning.
I tried to meet up with them less.
Who likes visiting...
their in-laws?
Is there anyone?
Let's assume no one likes it.
However, visiting them at times can be one's obligation.
It's wrong to belittle someone.
You shouldn't say things like that to belittle someone.
Right.
Both parties are saying it's not their fault.
It's hard to know who is telling the truth.
Let's hear from one of their friends.
I think she's sitting next to him. Hello.
- Hello. - It's nice to meet you.
- Please introduce yourself. - I'm her sister-in-law...
and she and I have been friends for 20 years.
- Do you understand her? - She has come to me many times...
to talk about this issue.
I feel bad for her as a woman.
When she was pregnant, she was very stressed out...
because her husband talked to her in a harsh way.
So she experienced some hair loss.
What do you think about her personality?
She also talks to him harshly at times.
So she does it as well.
One time, I visited their house.
I saw them arguing...
and throwing things at each other.
I didn't want to keep watching them argue,
so I left.
They kept arguing even with pieces of...
broken glass in front of their baby.
If you perceive them as objectively as possible,
who do you think starts the argument?
The husband mostly starts it.
- The husband? - Does he start the argument?
- He must start the argument. - I see.
Why didn't you control yourself especially in front of your child?
You didn't have to throw things.
- I don't remember exactly when... - Okay.
that was, but he always belittles me.
Once, he looked at me while I was breastfeeding our baby.
He said, "That's disgusting."
"Cover yourself up before I throw up."
- That's what he said. - Okay.
(How in the world?)
I was really hurt,
so I sometimes regretted having a baby with him.
- From an objective perspective, - He only sees his wife...
- as a strong person. - I don't understand that.
How could you say that when your wife was breastfeeding...
- your own child? - It's a sacred thing.
I said that without thinking...
right after I saw that. There was no particular reason.
Did you think breastfeeding should be done only in private?
I didn't know since I never had a child before.
(Even if he didn't know...)
(there must be something essentially wrong with his attitude.)
How long has it been since...
your husband expressed his love or complimented you?
He says no when I ask him whether he loves me.
- He says no? - Yes.
On my birthday,
he swore at me looking annoyed all day long.
So I asked him to say "Happy Birthday" to me just this once.
Right before the day was over,
he said, "Happy Birthday, okay?"
- That was it. - That's...
Did you say no when she asked whether you loved her?
- Yes. - Why?
- Was it a joke? - She asks me that too often.
- It's because you don't tell her. - Do you really love her?
(Nodding)
- Yes, yes. - Pardon?
- Honestly? - Yes.
How much do you love your wife?
I couldn't live without her.
- Why do you treat her like this? - I tend to complain when she's...
around, but when she isn't around...
Why do you treat her like that when you love her?
So I'm not sure what to do.
It seems that he isn't able to express himself verbally very well.
Since he can't express himself verbally,
does he make any physical contact with you instead?
There hasn't been any physical contact for three years.
- For three years? - Three years?
This is unbelievable!
For three years?
He hardly made any physical contact after they had a baby.
- You didn't even kiss? - For three years?
(This is unbelievable.)
When I approach him to make physical contact with him,
my husband tells me to get away and swears at me. He says...
- he doesn't see me as a woman. - He tells you to get away?
That's what he says when I try acting cute.
- That's harsh. - She became pregnant with...
our first child when we slept together for the first time.
- For the first time? - It happened even though we were...
being careful. It's been too long as I was trying to be more cautious.
Do you ever want to caress your wife?
She might not know this, but she's quite cute when she's asleep.
I've touched her cheeks a few times then.
- Secretly? - When she's unconscious?
Actually...
- Secretly? - When she's unconscious?
- Actually... - Oh no.
Then you swear at her when she's awake...
while thinking she's pretty when she's unconscious?
You tell her to get away.
- I can't express my feelings well. - You don't know how at all.
It's because I don't know how to properly express my feelings.
(What a unique case.)
What are you most worried about?
On paper,
we are actually divorced.
- What? - What?
Last year, I felt so belittled.
I even thought I am not worth anything as a woman.
I also thought our relationship would be bad for our child.
- That's why we divorced. - Legally?
- Yes. - But you're living together again?
- Did you get back together? - My son loves his dad very much.
- Both of our parents... - Of course.
told us to get back together for our child.
So we got back together last December.
After promising me that he would treat me better,
he hasn't changed at all.
Our relationship actually got worse. He tells me that...
he wouldn't be living with me if it wasn't for our child.
That's what he told me.
Why do you say such things so often?
I came here to decide whether to stay with him or not.
- Is that so? - This is quite serious.
I can't seem to talk sweetly to her.
Instead I treat her worse...
- Isn't that an excuse? - He said he's unable to express...
- himself, and they're so used to... - He keeps making excuses.
treating each other like this.
Being on our show could be your last chance.
I think they're here to find a solution to their worry.
Let's confirm with them now.
Do you want your wife to completely disappear?
I tried hard to change after...
we got back together.
But there wasn't much of an improvement.
I decided to come on the show...
expecting to be criticised.
- I want to make this work. - Okay.
It's pointless to say who's right or wrong.
Please tell us everything that is on your mind.
My wife has a short temper.
When she gets angry, I can't talk to her because I'm scared.
I hope she will control her temper.
What is it that you want your husband to change?
It doesn't matter if he belittles me in front of others,
but please do not treat me like that in front of our child.
Don't swear at me.
I hope that we will be good examples to our child.
I'm curious how you feel. Your husband said that...
he really loves you.
When you got back together with him,
did you do it only for your child,
or did you do it because you really loved your husband?
(I love him very much.)
Do you love him very much?
- Do you still love him? - Yes.
(Tears from the bottom of their heart)
- Wow. - They must love each other.
The husband is also crying.
(Snuffling)
Stop treating her that way before you cry!
I think the husband is also very sensitive.
He's been hurt a lot.
- It's an expression of reproach. - That's true.
He's defending himself by attacking her first.
I hope you will keep your promise...
like you've shown love to her with your tears.
Jung Cheul, do you think it's a worry?
(Voting by the guests)
I think it is serious.
- Okay. - Press the button.
Please press the button if you agree.
I agree that it is a big worry.
I think it is a worry too.
I was so shocked to hear them.
But I think there is a room for improvement.
So I don't think it is a worry.
Please press the button...
if you think it is a worry.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2 and 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2 and 1.
- Stop. - Stop.
If you get back together with her,
can you make physical contact with her again?
Please come here and try to kiss her.
- Good. - It is a good idea.
Come here.
You don't need to hurry.
- You should look shy. - She was waiting for it.
- She likes it. - Come here.
Don't be shy.
- Look at them. - You are so ready for this.
How long has it been?
- Three years. - It's been three years?
We will close our eyes.
Close your eyes.
- Start. - Say "I love you."
- Close your eyes. - I love you.
(I love you, Honey.)
Kiss her!
- Everything just melted away. - How do you feel?
I'm happy.
(Live happily with your husband.)
I wonder how many pressed the button. Please show us the result.
(The announcement of results)
Let's see.
- Oh! - Wow.
Is it winning?
- Is it winning? - Is it 183?
- 173? - Oh my.
(Would there be a new winner?)
- Okay! - Wow!
("He's so mean" wins for the first time.)
(I can't believe this.)
Did you see that?
Now we have a new winner.
"I Love Watching Wrestling".
Hello.
I am a mother of two children in my 40s.
There is a big fan of pro wrestling in my family.
"Oh no! He needs to do the dropkick!"
"I can't believe this."
You'd think I could stop her from watching it as a family.
The big fan of pro wrestling is...
- my mother-in-law. - What?
How old is she?
Her mother-in-law loves watching pro wrestling?
Whenever I try to have breakfast before going to work,
I hear some screams.
- In the morning? - "Yes! He got an uppercut!"
"It seems he broke his nose."
When I see some wrestlers having a nosebleed on TV,
it kills my appetite.
It would be okay if she kept it as her own hobby,
but even my daughter likes it too.
"Don't just get hit! Fight back with a Superman punch!"
She used to read history books listening to classical music.
I'm having a very hard time, Mother.
Why would you keep watching pro wrestling on TV?
This is her story.
(Can you please stop watching it?)
It is unusual.
It was her mother-in-law.
What do you think?
Do you like pro wrestling or UFC?
I liked it when I was young.
I liked Hulk Hogan and The Undertaker.
But things changed as I got old.
I like watching UFC.
In fact, she used to be a mixed martial arts player.
- Yes, I did boxing and kendo. - Really?
She is an athlete.
Anyway...
Il Joong was waiting for you.
He waited for you to tell him something.
Dong Yup, you are mean.
I knew that he wanted to say something...
so I changed the subject on purpose.
It's not easy to survive in this field.
I had something to say.
Did you?
You can say it in your next life.
(Next life?)
It is unusual...
that her mother-in-law loves watching pro wrestling.
Let's talk about her story then.
You'd think I will let you say what you have in mind.
But I don't do that.
(We are different.)
Il Joong, when you watch this programme on TV,
you will only get to see yourself laughing.
Let's talk with the woman who has a worry. Please come on out.
(Who is the woman who's worried about her mother-in-law?)
(An Gun Soon)
Please introduce yourself.
Hello. I'm An Gun Soon from Yangsan, a good city to live in.
Welcome!
She's from Yangsan.
By the way, does your mother-in-law...
watch pro wrestling every day?
She watches it every day.
I think women in her age usually watch drama.
But my mother-in-law loves pro wrestlers from other countries.
- Like American pro wrestlers? - Yes.
I wonder how old she is.
She is 62 years old.
- 62. - She's in her 60s.
How long has it been?
I think it has been at least 20 years.
- What? - 20 years?
- It's been 20 years? - She's been watching it since 40.
How bad it is then?
Once she sees a pro wrestler,
- she of course knows his name, - And his specialty?
specialty, character and even family relations.
- Family relations? - How could she know that?
She sure is a big fan.
The stadium announcer introduces a pro wrestler in English.
- Yes. - Does she understand English?
Then she guesses who the wrestler is...
even before she sees him.
I think she understands English.
- Wow. - She understands wrestling terms.
- I think so. - It is amazing.
Don't you like watching pro wrestling matches on TV?
(Sighing deeply)
She just sighed.
You may think I'm strong as I'm big.
But I'm soft and weak inside.
I understand.
(They understand each other.)
My heart flutters for a little thing.
It really does.
When I have breakfast,
I see some craggy wrestlers fighting...
all covered in sweat and I even hear the sound.
Like the sound of them fighting?
It kills my appetite.
You know...
- how much it means to me. - Does it kill your appetite?
It seems you're here to meet Yeong Ja.
Can't you still understand her as it's her hobby?
She loves it.
My daughter.
She used to love listening to classical music...
and watching historical drama.
- She liked studying history. - She used to study history.
She read all the history books we had at home.
But one day,
I heard her shouting...
and yelling like "One more blow. Knock him out."
I was shocked to see my daughter saying that.
I understand that she is more worried about her daughter.
I think there must be a reason for that.
I agree.
- Your mother-in-law is a woman. - Yes.
So...
- it is possible that she likes... - Their well-built body?
watching their will-built body.
You always think that way.
She is 62...
and she is a big fan of pro wrestling.
Let's talk with her. Hello, Ma'am.
Hello.
(She looks gentle.)
As I see her, she seems to like watching drama.
- She looks calm and gentle. - I know.
I'm all woman.
Do you prefer watching pro wrestling to drama?
Whenever I watch drama, people takes someone's child...
and a wife slaps her husband in the face.
I don't like watching it.
I'd rather watch people fighting and beating each other.
Do you like it?
You think it is better.
- Yes. - Is it better than drama?
I think I'm sort of thrilled by watching it.
How do you get a thrill out of it, Ma'am?
There was a man...
I really wanted to beat up.
Who is it?
Do I have to tell you who that is?
Okay. You don't need to talk about your husband here.
I understand.
I'm sorry for him to say this.
But I couldn't live the way I wanted because of my husband.
You were stressed out.
Do you enjoy watching their well-built body?
I think I do.
- I knew it. - I understand.
I know...
their well-built body is amusing to watch.
They look cool.
How much time do you spend watching it per day?
I think I watch it for about an hour a day.
To see how much time she spends watching pro wrestling...
we asked for a video shoot on her.
She shot a video of her mother-in-law.
Did you know about this?
You didn't know?
(I'm sorry.)
- How would she look like? - I'm curious.
Let's watch it together.
She's watching it!
She is sitting close to the TV.
(Her granddaughter shot this video.)
He used to have straight hair.
He had his hair done nicely today...
so he probably doesn't want his opponent to mess up his hair.
- She understands it. - She even interprets it.
She assumes the wrestler probably doesn't want his hair messed up.
(She watches his lethal moves.)
Do you see this?
He should hit him on the chin here.
Then he can win.
Is she talking to her granddaughter?
(Sometimes she watches it while eating wild ginseng.)
(Sometimes she watches it like a macho man.)
(And sometimes she watches it while working out.)
She's watching it while working out.
(She spends a few hours watching pro wrestling.)
She's good.
She really enjoys it.
It looks like she is watching some comedy programmes.
She enjoys it very much.
The problem is...
it made her granddaughter...
- love watching pro wrestling. - I know.
- It is her concern. - Okay.
- Is she your daughter? - Yes.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Shy)
Do you like watching pro wrestling with your grandmother?
- Yes, it is interesting. - What is so interesting about it?
- The wrestlers are handsome. - She's right.
She looks very excited now.
It looks like she's talking about a boy band.
Did you give up studying history?
- Yes. - What?
(Yes, I gave up a long time ago.)
You can't do that.
You shouldn't give up on your study.
Your grandmother said she spends about an hour watching it.
That's not true.
She watches it for about four hours.
- Four hours. - What?
- At least 2 to 3 hours. - Four hours?
- She spends at least 2 to 3 hours. - At least 2 to 3 hours.
At home?
Does she know a lot about professional wrestlers?
She even knows about their family relations.
- That's amazing. - The wrestlers' family relations?
Yes, she knows everything.
- How impressive. - Ma'am,
who are your favourite wrestlers?
I like righteous wrestlers.
I see. Who would that be?
- The Rock and John Cena. - The Rock.
I also like The Undertaker.
The Undertaker.
(Fascinating)
Isn't it fascinating?
Ma'am.
Tell us about The Rock.
The Rock successfully made a career change as an actor.
He no longer fights in the ring.
- There he is. - The Rock is Dwayne Johnson.
- Yes. - Dwayne Johnson.
Was he originally a professional wrestler?
- Was he? - Yes.
He doesn't fight in the ring often these days,
but he does appear in crucial moments.
- Does he? - Yes, he does.
- He is cool. - I like that he fights for justice.
What about John Cena?
He fights...
well and flawlessly.
Flawlessly?
- Well and flawlessly? - Well and flawlessly.
He throws his opponents...
and makes use of leg locks...
to win a fight.
(Everyone is fascinated.)
(This is common knowledge.)
- Is he your son? - Yes.
- Hello. - How cute.
- Hello. - Wow.
What comes to your mind when you see...
your grandmother and sister enjoy watching wrestling?
I like wrestling, too.
- Do you watch it with them? - I think it's fine.
It's fine? It's a concern of your mother.
I don't care if it's her concern.
(It's not my business.)
(Her son is cold-hearted.)
- Is he your husband? - Yes.
- Hello. - He is her husband.
- Hello. - Hello.
It seems like waving a hand runs in the family.
- His son did that, too. - I know.
Do it with your father In 1, 2, 3.
Hello.
- How cute. - It runs in the family.
Your mother loves professional wrestling.
She started to watch it when I was in college.
- I see. - Right.
I told her on numerous occasions...
that the wrestlers follow a script.
But she refuses to believe it.
She goes, "They are hitting each other and drawing blood."
"There is no way these fights can be fake."
That's right. It's just a show.
That's what I think, too.
She and I still argue over this matter.
- Really? - Yes.
Ma'am,
- Yes? - don't you think...
the wrestlers are following a script?
Even if there is a script,
- there are parts that are genuine. - I see.
- That's what I think. - I think her family...
should let her believe that.
She is like a child who believes Santa Claus...
- is real. - I know.
Let's cease to talk about this matter.
- Okay. - That's a good idea.
- All right. - They are following a script.
Some people just have to ruin the moment.
Your daughter said that she gave up on studying for history.
Doesn't that make you worried?
She was practising her uppercut yesterday.
She said, "Dad, let me try with your face."
"Dad, let me try with your face."
- What did you do? - So...
- I dodged her punch. - Okay.
But she kept saying, "I really want to land a punch."
That's what she said.
- She has grown up. - That's...
(This is why I am worried.)
Since she watched it for 20 years,
I am sure she became an expert...
- of professional wrestling. - I know.
I am an expert...
on some matters.
To see how informed she is on professional wrestling,
we prepared a selection of photos...
of the wrestlers.
Please look at the photos...
- and tell us who they are. - Give us their names and such.
The audience is fascinated.
- Ma'am. - It's Kevin Owens.
This one?
There is a name on the screen.
I thought so, too.
You can do without it, right?
(You hurt my pride.)
He has a wife and children.
But I heard that his son...
once saw his dad fight...
- and cried. - Oh.
It was shocking for a child to see his dad getting beaten up.
He cried because...
he understood then that his dad goes through a lot for him.
From now on, we will give you photos without the name.
(It will be more difficult.)
Give us the next photo.
(Ta-da)
- It doesn't have a name. - Who is he?
- Give us the name. - Triple H.
- Sorry? - Triple H.
- Her answer is correct.
Is it correct?
It's written on the screen.
- It's written in English. - They didn't manage to erase it.
- It's written in English. - I didn't see it.
- Okay. - All right.
Tell us a bit about him.
Since he is an executive of World Wrestling Entertainment, Inc,
- he frequently plays a villain. - He plays a villain.
- Her answer is correct. - And...
he has a wife who also plays a villain...
perfectly well.
I don't like him very much.
He could be a nice man in person.
- That's right. - If that were true,
he wouldn't play such role.
Really?
People who play a villain can be nice.
- Ma'am. - He often plays a villain.
Professional wrestlers are not actors.
- Sorry? - They are not professional actors.
- But their fights are a show. -They are not actors.
Okay. Give us the next photo.
It's Big Show.
- She knows all of them. - Big Show.
He is a big man.
How much does he weigh?
He weighs about 200kg.
- He weighs 200kg? - Gosh.
He weighs 200kg?
How tall is he?
He is over 210cm.
- Over 210cm? - Really?
- She know them well. - Her answer is apparently correct.
He is over 210cm tall and weighs 200kg.
He is 213cm tall.
- Really? - He is so tall.
How do you know these things?
Did you pick these up from watching their show?
- Yes. - The show is in English.
It is, but you gather bits and pieces.
- Really? - Give us the next photo.
(Wait a minute.)
- He is handsome. - What was his name?
She asked her granddaughter for help.
Her granddaughter gave her a name.
- Do you know who he is? - Give them the answer.
He is Roman Reigns.
He is currently the champion.
He is righteous.
- Righteous? - Yes.
They like righteous wrestlers.
The executives don't like him,
so he was recently in a fight against 29 opponents.
- That happened. - She is an expert.
Did he win or lose?
- He lost. - Gosh.
What is his signature move?
Superman Punch.
- Superman Punch. - Yes.
It's the move I'm practising these days.
- Please show us. - How do you do it?
- Show us. - This is how he does it.
Like this. It's easy.
She is a big fan of professional wrestling.
She may be a bigger fan than her grandmother.
- I know. - She is enthusiastic.
Seriously.
The production team told us...
that you are good with...
- a voice imitation. - Yes.
(An advisory warning is heard...)
(before every wrestling match.)
I can imitate the advisory warning.
- Please show us. - I am not very good at it.
My goodness.
"They are global entertainers,"
"professionally trained athletes."
"They take real risks..."
"and endure unimaginable pain."
"Broken bones,"
"torn muscles,"
"dislocations."
"Be smart, be safe."
"Don't try this at home."
It's in English, too.
- How nice. - It's good for her English skills.
It's good for her English skills.
- Her pronunciation is good. - Professional wrestling helps.
- She surprised me. - Yes.
(My granddaughter is the best.)
They all love professional wrestling.
Have you ever felt left out...
because of it?
Yes, I want to be able to...
enjoy my time with them.
But they all sit in front of the TV...
and share comments whenever a wrestler appears.
They talk about his signature moves and such.
- And you don't understand a thing. - That's right.
I can't join their conversation.
I thought about discussing the matter with my husband...
since it worries me so much.
- But he has a stranger hobby. - What?
- Your husband does? - He is...
also a worry of mine.
- What do you mean? - What are you talking about?
- He is another worry of yours? - What is his hobby?
- As you can see, - Yes.
he weighs over 100kg.
He is a big man.
Does he wrestle?
Maybe he does.
He does belly dancing with that body.
- Belly dance? - Belly dance.
(It's an alluring dance with beautiful moves.)
(Why would he do belly dancing?)
- Belly dance. - Belly dance?
His mother watches wrestling and he belly dances.
Shouldn't it be the other way around?
How strange.
The costumes are so revealing, too.
- That's right. - When did he start to dance?
- He started about five years ago. - Five years ago?
- That's when he started to dance. - He must be good.
He dances in the middle of...
working and walking.
Please show us your dance.
- Let's see it. - We can't imagine it.
He is taking off his shirt.
- Would that be all right? - He's taking his shirt off.
My goodness.
He's wearing the costume under his shirt.
(A sparkly outfit is revealed.)
It's a mesh top.
He is a bigger concern than his mother.
(The back is made up of mesh material.)
- It's mesh material. - It is!
- My goodness. - He's cool.
(He enters the stage after putting on a hip scarf.)
Watch your husband carefully.
- Give us the music. - Give us the music.
(What would a middle-aged man's belly dance look like?)
(He is incredibly flexible.)
My goodness.
(Flexible)
(He starts to shake his hips.)
(Her jaw drops.)
Show your wife.
- That's a good idea. - Show the dance to your wife.
(Swaying his hips)
Don't you like it?
(Don't do this to me.)
- He is a good dancer. - Now, show your mother.
(He dedicates the dance to his mother.)
(That's my son.)
(He ends the dance with a wave.)
Give him a round of applause.
- He is good. - He is a good dancer.
(Everyone seems to be having fun.)
Are you more worried about your mother-in-law...
watching professional wrestling...
- or your husband belly dancing? - Seriously.
- We suddenly have two worries. - Which one worries you more?
- I know. - Are they equal in seriousness?
On a scale of 1 to 10, how serious is each worry?
I am more worried about my husband.
- Is he about 7 out of 10? - I see.
One day, while brushing his teeth,
my husband hurt his back.
He had to be rushed over to an emergency room...
to get a surgery for a herniated disc.
He runs an academy for a living.
Because of his injury,
I had to take care of his classes and look after him.
I don't even want to think about the days I have endured.
That's how difficult it has been.
She is gravely mistaken.
I hurt my back...
from carrying 20kg of sweet potatoes.
I hurt my back when I bent over to spit in the sink.
You got injured because of a small task.
It seems like my wife wants to blame...
belly dancing for my injury,
but I won't stop dancing.
They throw mean punches.
The wrestlers are so handsome.
I don't care if it's her concern.
(Her husband does belly dancing.)
(I feel so alone.)
All right. Let's start with Jung Cheul.
Okay. I don't think it's a worry.
- Why not? - Then you don't have to press it.
It's perfectly okay for one to have a hobby.
- So you don't think it's a worry. - No.
- What about you, Sung Jin? - I also don't think it's a worry.
Moon Tak?
I think the family is very healthy.
They relieve their stress in a healthy way.
I don't think it's a worry.
- What about you, Il Joong? - I also don't think it's a worry.
(Their hobbies add to my stress.)
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Time's up.
Please say a word to your daughter-in-law.
You have told us about what ails you,
so I will try to cut back on watching professional wrestling.
You should work out and lose weight.
Let's lead a happy and healthy life.
- All right. - How nice.
- Thank you. - Say a few words to your wife.
- That's right. - She wants you to stop dancing.
Speak your mind to your wife.
Honey,
I stopped smoking and I don't drink to begin with.
- You know, - All men say that.
I feel happy and alive when I dance.
May I please keep on dancing?
Let's talk at home.
Then why are you here on the show?
(Gulping)
Let's see the result.
(The final result)
("I Love Watching Wrestling")
Let's see how many votes they got.
- They got 67 votes. - 67 votes.
(Eliminated)
("He's so mean" survives.)
(What's that sound?)
- Hello, hello. - Hello.
Last week, we introduced a new segment...
- called "Hello News". - We must have good news again.
- That's right. - Who is on "Hello News" today?
(Who is on "Hello News" today?)
My husband is the root of my worry.
- "My Wife's Cry". - He plays tennis,
then he plays golf.
As you can see, I am at the last month of my pregnancy.
- She was pregnant. - He makes me work like a servant.
I don't like doing dishes.
No one likes it!
When I was having contractions before giving birth to my child,
he was away for a baseball match.
- I remember the story. - I called him,
- He was at a baseball match. - but he told me to wait.
I need to focus on the match.
Come on.
Let's see how much he has changed.
(Saturday morning at a photo studio)
(The family looks excited.)
- That must be her baby. - She's already so big.
- She was pregnant back then. - I know.
(Who are they looking at?)
Hello.
- That's her second child. - That's more like it.
- I thought the child was too big. - I thought so, too.
I thought the child was too big.
- Seriously. - My husband changed a lot.
I am very happy now.
- I stopped playing sports. - Wow!
I decided to dedicate my time to housework and childcare.
My baseball team asked me to stop coming.
(His baseball team let him go.)
- They threw him out. - That's good.
- What a nice baseball team. - Yes.
Who has been a naughty baby?
- This is how their weekend goes. - Look at that.
- There you go. - He never used to do that.
- He is changing a diaper. - He is.
He is making lunch, too.
- That's amazing. - I guess he watched cooking shows.
Childcare takes a lot of work.
- Yes, it does. - The family looks happy.
Children needs a bond with their parents when they are young.
It's crucial for their development.
- It seems like he lost weight. - I know.
(Crying)
He has changed so much.
(Their second child needs them.)
- The baby woke up. - What a cute baby.
(Dad to the rescue.)
- How cute. - Look at that smile.
(The baby smiles again.)
- Dad, you are the best. - I'm the best.
(He became the best dad in two months.)
There you go.
He became a changed man in two months.
I didn't know the graveness of the situation.
It came as a shock when my wife's worry received so many votes.
- I was so shocked... - He looked shocked that time.
that I decided to change.
What a relief.
- That's nice. - He did lose weight.
What was the birth of your second child like?
- It was nice. - I was there with her.
- She looks happy. - He stayed with me...
until I gave birth.
- Her smile is much brighter. - I know.
- She looks happy. - He treated me nicely.
- People's reaction shocked him. - She became prettier.
- He stopped playing sports. - She has always been pretty.
He now thrives to become a good father to the children.
Our first child used to cling to me,
but she now like playing with her dad more.
- Who's your favourite? Dad or Mum? - How cute.
- Dad. - She likes her dad.
She likes her dad better.
He must have treated her well.
Do you like Dad or Pororo?
(Pororo)
- Children love Pororo. - Pororo.
He lost to Pororo.
They went to a sledding slope.
You will be sledding with me.
What a beautiful family.
(She is crying.)
- She is crying. - A crying child makes...
- a parent nervous. - That's right.
(Only the father enjoys sledding.)
- I won't sled anymore. - You won't sled anymore?
- She won't sled anymore. - How cute.
- Some children don't like sledding. - Thank you so much...
for changing for the better.
I hope we continue to live...
happily together as a family.
Hello is a perfect show...
for rehabilitation.
(Hello is a perfect show for rehabilitation.)
- It's a show for rehabilitation. - Thank you, and I love you.
Thank you.
- That's cute. - I'm glad that he changed.
(What a heart-warming change.)
- Shall we video call them? - Let's do that.
Look at the camera.
- Hello. - Hello.
What has changed...
now that you spend time with your wife and children?
I love that...
sacrificing my time makes my family happy.
Is there anything you would like? We want to give you a present.
We love "Cultwo Show".
- Would you like tickets? - Do you want tickets to the show?
- We will give you the tickets. - All right.
It's our show you are talking about.
It's not your tickets to give.
(Dong Yup is enthusiastic.)
Does your husband often tell you that he love you?
Yes, he expresses his love more often now.
(Hugging)
- Give her a kiss! - They look natural.
- Give her a kiss. - How nice.
If he stops expressing his love, punch him in the jaw.
(Do what is right.)
- Superman Punch! - Then he will pass out.
We hope your family becomes even happier. Thank you.
- Thank you. Stay happy. - Thank you.
("Hello News" will continue to bring heart-warming stories.)
- How nice. - It was heart-warming.
Someday, I hope to see that couple under the same circumstance.
- You should love your wife. - We hope you would change.
(We hope to see you again after a positive change.)
"Righteous Son".
Hello.
I'm a woman in her 50s who lives in Busan.
Because of my son,
I come close to having a heart attack every day.
This is what happens when I'm walking with him.
"You are all high schoolers, right?"
"What are you doing?"
"You should be ashamed of stealing money..."
"from younger kids."
"Old man, mind your own business."
"Be on your way."
"Kids like you need a good beating."
"What insolent kids."
"I will make you see the way today."
"Come on."
My son never ignores an act of injustice.
Whenever I witness his tactics, I get so nervous...
that my knees shake. One time, this happened.
"Guess what happened today?"
"I saw a flasher in the alley."
"What? A flasher?"
"Don't worry. I will take care of him."
He thinks he is a protector of the town.
After a month of stakeout,
he successfully apprehended a flasher.
Does he think himself a police officer?
The thought that he might be harmed by his actions...
keeps me awake at night.
It has already happened. "Gosh, my son."
"What happened to your face?"
"Why is your cloth ripped? Where did these bruises come from?"
"There was a man harassing a woman."
"I taught him a lesson."
"He looked like a gangster and put up a fight."
"You will give me a heart attack."
"Please don't stick your nose in other people's business."
"Mother,"
"justice needs to prevail."
(Justice prevails.)
His sense of justice will get him killed.
Someone please save my son...
from his righteousness.
(Someone please save him from his righteousness.)
Because of her righteous son,
this woman lives every day in fear.
Let's invite her to the stage.
(Who is the woman worried about her overly righteous son?)
There she is.
(Bae Jong Soon)
Please introduce yourself.
Hello. I am Bae Jong Soon from Busan.
Hello!
She looks brave too.
So your son can't stand injustice. Is that right?
Yes. He can't stand it.
- Can you explain more? - I thought she was done.
- I thought that was it. - When he sees...
- a car that violates traffic light, - If he sees a car like that...
he walks to the car and complain it to the person.
- And if he sees... - Yes.
minors smoking,
- And? - he says,
"Hey! Pick up the cigarette butts!"
When he sees that they spat on the floor,
he goes to the bathroom, brings a mop and tells them to wipe it.
- That's what he does. - He makes sure to correct it.
- One time, we were walking. - Yes.
And he saw big high school kids...
taking money from middle school students.
So I said,
"Let's just go. They look very scary."
"Let's hurry and go home."
And he said, "Gosh, Mother."
"Those kids need to get scolded."
"You go stand in the back."
How many high school students were there?
There were about five to six of them.
Then you should've stopped him.
But the scariest ones are the drunkards.
The drunkards are the hardest to deal with.
Yes.
- Please tell us more about it. - Please explain.
She likes to take a break after saying yes.
If you stop in between, we get really frustrated.
There were about 5 to 6...
drunk college students fighting.
They broke the car window with their fists.
They broke a random person's car because they were drunk.
He could've ignored them,
but he went up to them and said,
"Hey!"
"Why did you do this to another person's car..."
"and become a nuisance?"
"Please don't cause any troubles."
Later, I found out that...
he's even patrolling the town for four years.
- His town? Why? - I asked him why he did that.
And he said it was because of the children smoking.
I told him to stop the nonsense and stay home.
Let's meet her son who can't stand injustice.
It's obvious where he is.
Hello.
(Who is her son who can't stand injustice?)
Did you know that your mother was worried?
She usually worries a lot.
But I didn't know her worries were this serious.
At wrong situations,
it would be nice to at least say a word or two.
But not many people do, and I get frustrated watching that.
High school students were taking money from younger students.
And those younger students were sending people signals.
They were terrified, so they couldn't speak up.
But they asked me for help with their eyes.
- It's... - That's why...
I think you see them better than other people.
I can't just pass by when I see an injustice.
He looks...
- rather cute from here. - Yes.
These days...
He's got a cute face.
You look like a good person, so I don't think the children...
will get disheartened when you scold them.
- I think they'd curse at you. - When that happens,
- Please show us how you do it. - I...
- Okay. - Please come on out.
All right.
- He's tall. - Wow.
(He's big.)
- He's tall. - First is smoking students.
- I will help you. - Come here.
- Okay. I am an actor. - Yes, you are.
(He's perfect.)
I'm used to playing a delinquent student.
Do you have a cigarette?
I have a cigarette, but I don't have a lighter.
- You are high school students. - Mister.
Do you have a lighter?
- Mister, you fat man. - Give us a lighter.
First of all,
I am not even married yet.
- What is he? - Don't act up.
Put it out. Put it down.
- But it's not lighted yet. - I asked you for a lighter.
You shouldn't be smoking.
(Students shouldn't be smoking.)
Stand straight.
- Stand straight. - Put it down.
Gosh...
- It was cold so... - You'll get into a big trouble.
- Are you Don Spike? - Stand still!
- Stand to attention. Don't move. - He overpowers them.
If you move once,
and you will get into a big trouble.
- Brother, we were just... - Don't brother me.
We are borrowing a lighter because it's too cold.
Stop talking nonsense.
- We don't have a lighter. - No.
You shouldn't live like this.
- You have to be good kids. - Okay.
I love you.
- Study hard. - I'm sorry.
You can do it.
He's got charisma.
He has charisma.
He told us not to move.
This time,
- it will be for a girl. - Il Joong.
- Yes? - You act as a flasher.
- What? - A flasher.
I'm curious what he'll do in that situation.
- He.. - I'll lend my jacket to you.
- I'll lend you. - Please act as the flasher.
It's great.
We checked how he deals with delinquent children.
Let's see how he deals with a flasher.
- Okay. - Start acting like a flasher.
Hello!
(Oh dear!)
(It's exciting!)
(Get your senses back!)
I hit him and make him fall.
I make him fall.
- And when he tries to move, - Yes?
(Stay still!)
- When he tries to move... - Yes.
(The flasher goes crazy.)
Don't move.
Call the police.
- Don't move. - You won't talk to him?
Call the police.
This is how I usually do it.
Thank you, Il Joong.
(He guides juvenile delinquents back into the right path.)
(He arrests a flasher.)
(Are you the police?)
Are you an athlete? You look like an athlete.
Since second year in high school, I've been doing kick-boxing.
Starting in my early 20s,
- I've been training Karate. - Karate?
It's like asking a pro-wrestler about his background.
Ma'am, please grab the microphone.
What do you think?
I want to applaud him.
(She wants to applaud him.)
Thank you.
If his mother lets it pass,
I think the areas around Busan schools...
will become better. That's what I thought for a moment.
- Because of him. - Thank you.
I applaud you.
(She cheers for him.)
It's nice to catch a robber and a flasher. It's all nice.
- But I am just worried that... - He might get hurt.
he will get beaten up.
- You're worried. - That's my worry.
Since you are very brave, I'm sure girls would love you.
Do you have a girlfriend now?
I used to have a girlfriend. We broke up recently.
- Why did you break up? - Did she dump you?
We had different personalities.
- Different personalities. - She...
- Different personalities. - That's the most common reason.
What's your ideal type of girl?
My standards are very simple.
I want a girl who respects the elders, who is polite,
who is slightly innocent, elegant, pretty, and sexy.
- You want everything. - Yes, but...
She has to be innocent, elegant, pretty, and sexy.
I like Jessi.
- Jessi. - Yes.
I like a girl like Jessi. I want a girl who can curse to a man.
- She curses well. - She curses well.
She curses well.
Do you want to meet her?
But she's already married.
So I can't.
I want a girl who can slap aman in the face.
- And her personality should be... - She slaps men well.
- She's married.
What do you do? I am really curious.
I work for a pharmaceutical company.
Since you can't stand injustice,
I thought you'd be a police. It's a surprise.
Even if I am not a police,
I can still catch bad people.
When I catch bad people while patrolling,
I hand them over to the police, and they thank me for helping.
The police officers thank me.
When that happens, I feel very good and thankful.
How many times did you catch bad people...
and get thanked by the police?
There were three incidents.
- Can you tell us about them? - Okay.
The first incident became the beginning of the patrol.
It's called "Flasher Arrest Incident".
Arrest incident.
One day, my little sister was coming home.
She hurriedly came inside the house...
and said that she saw a flasher on the way.
I couldn't believe there was a person like that in our town.
I couldn't stand it.
So I told her I'd catch him,
and I comforted my sister.
That's when I started patrolling the town.
- But... - How could you recognise him?
If I walk around streets alone,
- he won't show up in front of me. - That's right.
He's not sexually interested in me.
(The flasher is not interested in him.)
I had a feeling that...
he was going to pop out in dark market streets...
when girls with short skirts pass.
So I staked out in the market street.
And suddenly I heard a girl's scream.
And I thought, "This is it. He's here."
So I ran up to them.
- He pulled down his pants. - He pulled down his pants.
He took off his clothes and surrounded the girl.
I caught him right away...
and called the police.
- Wow. - Yes.
He couldn't run away.
You must feel very reassured to have an elder brother like him.
I feel reassured.
But more than that, I am worried that he's going to be hurt.
I'm more worried than I'm reassured.
So I want him to control himself.
She feels the same as her mother.
What's the second incident?
The second incident was...
"Motorbike Duo Snatcher Arrest Incident".
- He talks like a police officer. - He's like a police officer.
- Please do a briefing. - Okay.
I was walking on a street. And all of a sudden,
I heard someone scream and say "Save me."
I turned back and saw...
two people on a motorbike...
hurriedly driving towards me...
- with a handbag. - Towards you.
I waited until the motorbike passed by me.
When it was passing by me,
I kicked the motorbike...
and made it fall.
- You kicked the motorbike? - Yes, I kicked the motorbike.
And the civilians around me came together...
- And they helped you. - Yes.
We caught them and handed them to the police.
The police told me.
"Thank you again."
(Thank you again.)
It was like that.
I told him, "What if they recognise your face..."
- "and take a revenge on you?" - Right.
- That can happen. - Of course.
- They might be watching the show. - I told him to...
get back to his senses.
(She hopes he will live quietly.)
- What's the third incident? - Yes.
Please tell us about it.
It was at a district filled with bars.
There was a crosswalk,
and there were many people. I saw one guy grabbing...
a girl by her hair.
He was hitting her, and her face was bleeding.
- Oh dear. - There are a lot of people there.
But nobody was helping.
So I jumped into the situation and tried to stop him.
- I got into a physical fight. - Yes.
But thankfully,
police arrived while we were fighting.
They took the man who abused the girl.
- The police took him. - Yes.
There were a lot of civilians at the scene,
and they applauded me.
And I felt very proud of myself.
By the way, what was their relationship?
They were not lovers.
It turns out he had a history of violent crime.
You could've gotten into a big trouble.
He must've been big too then.
He was slightly bigger than me.
- He was bigger than you? - Yes. He was bigger than me.
I got hit by him, and I had a lot of bruises.
You got hit a lot?
Mum saw me, and she asked me why there were...
so many bruises, and why I got beaten.
Did you know about this incident?
One day, he was coming home,
and his face was all bruised and swollen.
His clothes were ragged.
So I asked what was wrong with him.
I asked him if he's got nothing better to do...
and told him to get his senses back.
Today,
we have invited his friend here.
Where are you?
- Hello. - Hello.
How was he back in school days?
When did you first become friends?
We've been friends since first year high school.
He's been like this the whole time.
- Even back in school? - Yes, even in high school.
When other kids were smoking in school uniform,
even if he wasn't a member of a student council,
he went up to them and told them, "Don't do this."
"Let's smoke honourably when we turn 20."
- "Why would you smoke now?" - It's like a line from a movie.
- That's what he said. - Do you smoke and drink now?
I don't smoke.
- Do you drink then? - You drink a little then?
I drink a little bit.
(He drinks a little bit.)
He's fearless and humorous.
Didn't he get that from you?
- That's right. - Yes.
Were you like an heroine back in the days?
I can't stand injustice either.
- You have that too. - What happened?
When I was in my 30s,
I took a bus to downtown.
And one man kept...
rubbing his body to a lady in front of him.
- He was sexually harassing her. - Yes.
- Was he doing that? - So...
I thought I would give him a lesson.
I took a clothing pin...
- And... - and I poked his penis.
- She precisely poked it. - Yes. Precisely.
That's like an attack.
If they will do that, their penis should be cut off.
(They need to be punished.)
(Oh dear.)
(My mother is the best.)
It's...
- What happened to him? - What happened to him?
When I poked him, he didn't know what to do,
and he just ran off.
- It must've hurt so much. - That's nothing compared to...
what your son did. But was that just one time?
(She's embarrassed.)
- Tell us. - She has more to say.
- Please tell us. - You can tell us.
For 30 years, I delivered newspapers in the morning.
- I see. - I rode motorbike.
One time, a woman and a man...
were kissing on a street.
I thought it was disgusting.
If they wanted to do that,
they should've gotten a room in a quiet place.
I didn't know why they had to do that in public.
I was riding the motorbike,
and I ran in between them.
You ran in between them?
They were kissing like this,
- and I parked in between them. - You went in between them.
- In between them. - Wow.
In between them!
- I parked in between them. - You like pocking.
- You parked in between them. - I did, and I said...
"What are you doing on the street?"
"That's wrong."
- That happened to me. - Then watching your son,
you must think that he got it from you.
- What are you worried the most? - But I know when to do it.
But my son doesn't.
(He would interfere with anyone.)
What are you most worried about him?
When are you worried?
- We were going out to eat. - Right.
And he saw young students...
smoking in front of the restaurant.
He scolded them badly and went inside the kitchen.
While eating,
we looked out the window.
About 3 or 4 people came on motorbike...
and stared at us.
They were giving us the eyes.
So the whole time we were eating,
- You can't concentrate. - I couldn't concentrate.
They were smoking in the middle of a street in school uniform.
I told them that it doesn't look good.
I scolded them a lot, and I returned to my seat.
Later on, they were upset that I scolded them,
and they called their friends for help.
Four motorbikes came, so I went to them.
I was really upset.
I was shouting...
and I screamed like a lunatic.
I scolded the oldest one first.
I kicked the motorbikes.
We had an intense physical fight,
and the police came early.
So thankfully the situation ended early.
How was it for you as his sister?
I didn't know why I had to eat in such a nerve-racking...
- situation. - Right.
It would've been better if he pretended he didn't see them.
I was worried that...
he was going to get hurt.
You were with your family,
so you didn't have to create that situation.
Right. He didn't have to do that.
About what happened that time,
I am really sorry to my family and I'm sorry to my parents.
But this happened one time.
I was walking on a street,
and one person said, "Hello, Sir."
He recognised me, but I didn't know who he was.
So I said, "I don't know who you are. Why are you saying hello?"
And he said, "Actually, when I was smoking back in high school,"
"you caught me, and you scolded me."
"You told me to save up the money I'd use to buy cigarette..."
"and buy my mum something delicious."
"Your words really touched me,"
"so I quit smoking in high school."
"Now I am in college,"
"and I took a leave of absence to serve the military duty."
When I heard that, I felt so proud.
I felt very proud.
- Is that why you... - Yes.
When young kids do something bad,
I get upset, and I scold them more harshly.
(I understand how you feel, but please do it in moderation.)
Lastly, please say something to your son.
When he was 20, he got into an accident.
The doctor at the hospital said...
that he could go in a vegetative stage.
What kind of an accident was it?
- A car accident? - It was a car accident.
I really hate to see him get hurt.
- Of course. - Talk directly to your son.
Son, I really don't want you getting hurt.
Don't worry, Mum.
So, from now on...
- So... - That makes her even more worried.
I hope everyone in our family...
will stay healthy,
and I hope these things will not happen again.
- This time, Il Joong will go first. - Okay.
I think...
it's a worry.
From his mother's perspective, I think it's a worry for sure.
It's a worry.
- I'm a parent too. - Right.
Whenever I ask my kids what Daddy hates the most,
they say that I hate them being sick and hurt.
That's how every parent feels.
So it's a worry.
- Jung Cheul. - I think it's a worry.
But he needs to find a little more efficient way.
- He could call the police faster. - He could...
call the police first. I think he needs to think about that.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2,1.
- Stop. - Stop.
Say something to your mother.
I want to tell her I love her.
If I can, I want to be born...
as your son again in my next life.
- I love you infinitely. - He loves her infinitely.
But if I see an injustice and turn my back around,
nothing will change.
I need to face the injustice...
in order to establish justice.
Right?
- Stop persuading her. - All right.
- Just tell her how you feel. - Stop...
- persuading her. - stop persuading her.
I will make sure not to worry you.
I will become a reassuring son.
Even in my next life, I will be your son.
Thank you. I love you.
(Thank you and I love you.)
She will say, "I won't marry your father again."
- All right. - She shouldn't marry him.
(She cries.)
- How many votes did she get? - She's crying.
- gosh. - She is.
Don't make your mother cry.
I think she's touched.
You are right.
Please show us the result.
It's going to be over 100 votes.
Currently, the winner has 173 votes.
(Will she get more than 173 votes?)
- 112 votes. - 112 votes.
- It's 112, the police number! - 112!
- It's the police number. - It's the emergency contact.
(He gets up.)
(This is my fate.)
Sir, please say something...
to the people who do injustice to this world.
Say something to bad people.
- Scold them. - Hold the microphone.
You think people are not watching you,
but many people are in fact watching you.
Don't do bad things.
Be good.
Everyone is watching you. And...
dial 112 for contacting police.
(Dial 112 for police.)
- Thank you. - Thank you.
"He's So Mean" becomes the new winner.
We will give you 1,000-dollar worth of prize.
("He's So Mean" becomes the new winner.)
Until the day we are all worry-free,
Hello will continue to counsel you.
Thank you!
(Hello will continue to counsel you.)
("Mo Mo Mo" by Cosmic Girls)